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From Infertility to Motherhood: The Joy of Foster Parenting

Are you ready to discover purpose in your life? Find out how foster parenting can unlock unexpected joy in this video from Tacole, a foster parent for children with medical needs.


Have you ever felt called to make a difference in a child’s life? 

For Tacole, a foster parent in Maryland, that calling led her to specialize in caring for children in foster care who have medically complex needs — a decision that transformed not just their lives but her own as well.

 

In this candid conversation, Tacole shares her experience with the specialized recruitment process, her unique challenges, and the indescribable rewards that come from motherhood and helping vulnerable children thrive despite medical obstacles.

“What has your experience been, being a foster parent for children with medical needs?”

"It's been a great experience. Being a medically fragile foster parent, we love the moments where we're in awe. We love the moments where the doctors have been amazed."

Tacole lights up as she shares the remarkable story of adopting her daughter Parrish after she and her husband brought her home from the hospital. Doctors warned that Parrish might never walk, talk, or eat independently. 

Today, at 12 years old, Parrish defies all those expectations — running, jumping, talking, and embracing her pre-teen sass.

A  visibly proud mother, Tacole shares, "I just love to see how wonders can happen and how we can be in awe of what can happen when children are nurtured, when they're supported, where they're loved."

“What was the recruitment process like when you were onboarding as a foster parent?”

From paperwork to home visits, the licensing process takes time and attention – and that's a good thing. It’s designed to prepare you and your home for the day a child walks through your front door. 

Thanks to the detailed licensing process, when that day comes, you’ll be ready.  

Tacole’s clear and positive perspective illustrates this: "At the end of the day, it's worth it. The paperwork is worth it. The interviews are worth it. The fingerprinting is worth it because you're going to provide a space, a home, a family for a child."

"At the end of the day, it's worth it. The paperwork is worth it. The interviews are worth it. The fingerprinting is worth it because you're going to provide a space, a home, a family for a child."

 

“What has been the most rewarding experience so far being a foster parent for children with medical needs?”

For Tacole, the rewards are numerous and deeply meaningful. "I don't even know if I can say one, but it's becoming a parent to a child, if only for a day". They have so many needs and for whatever reason, they need an adult to be able to meet that need."

Perhaps most rewarding has been witnessing children exceed medical expectations and, in some cases, becoming part of their forever family. 

"Another great reward is when, for whatever reason, they need a permanent home. We were able to be that for three of them. I just love the days where we have the opportunity to be able to give them that shirt that says they are a Robinson forever."

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“How did you decide to become a foster parent for children with medical needs?”

Tacole's path to foster parenting grew from her own personal experiences. After marrying in 2005, she and her husband struggled with infertility and experienced a miscarriage two years later.

"It was through those struggles that I was reminded that I had this desire as a young child to be a foster parent. I spent some time in foster care, and I've always had people who were not my biological parents who stepped up to help meet my needs."

Her husband agreed to attend an information session, which went "wonderfully." They specifically chose the medically fragile program because of their calling "to be ministers to those that are sick, those that need healing."

“How has Mentor's staff supported you and given you the confidence to be a successful foster parent?”

After more than ten years with Mentor Foster Care, Tacole speaks highly of the support system. "The staff has been wonderful. Since the very beginning, the director, Diane, has always been available. She's always been helpful. And her staff have done just the same."

From coordinators making home visits to nurses being available via text or call, Tacole emphasizes that foster parents are never alone. "Please know that Mentor Maryland is a great resource."

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Do you have an open heart like Tacole? If so, you can create miracles in the lives of children who need it the most – and discover joy and purpose in the process.

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