How to Become a Foster Parent - Your Step-by-Step Guide with FAQs
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With over 390,000 children currently in foster care, it’s easy to see how crucial foster care is to providing kids and teens with a loving and caring home.
Children enter foster care when either their biological parents or the courts decide that they need help to provide a safe and nurturing environment. For example, a child may enter foster care due to a parent’s illness or absence.
In many cases, foster care is meant to be a temporary solution with the goal of reuniting children with their families. Foster care may also be part of the path to permanent adoption, known as "foster care adoption."
Foster care adoption is the permanent adoption of a child in foster care.
If you’re thinking about adopting kids in care as a current or future foster parent, you may have many questions, such as:
Below, we’ll dive into how the foster care adoption process works, some challenges you might face along the way, and answer some common questions you may have.
The timeline for the foster care adoption process may seem like it can take a long time. The process can sometimes take as long as a year to complete.
Foster care adoption involves a thorough screening process for prospective adoptive parents, which includes background checks, home studies, and pre-service sessions to ensure the right fit between an adoptive family and a child in care. There are also ongoing support options provided by certain agencies and other organizations whose mission is to help both parents and children in care.
However, all of these steps help provide the best possible care to children in need — and make sure that there’s a good match between a family and a child in care.
Before starting the adoption process, it’s best to have all the information you need. While it’s true that adoption is a fulfilling and joyful experience, it’s also a significant step to take. You’re caring for a child in need!
It’s important to understand what kids and teens in care are going through — many may be living with trauma or the impact of neglect on their emotional and physical wellness. It can take time for any individual to work through. This also means it may take time for them to warm up to a new adoptive family.
You’ll also want to learn more about the adoption process itself. Blogs and government websites on foster care adoption are a great place to start. If you know anyone who has adopted a child through foster care, they can also be a valuable resource to you.
The process itself starts with filling out an application to a local organization in your particular state — this application process helps determine if you are a good fit for foster care adoption.
The application and paperwork involved will gather some of your personal information to conduct background checks. This is to make sure that children in care are placed in a loving and nurturing home. All states require criminal and child abuse record checks. In many states, the background investigation includes a check of federal, state, and local criminal records.
Don’t worry — if anything seems complicated, your local organization or home study specialist can help guide you through the process and ensure that you know what you need to do to move forward. They’re there to help!
Adopting a child from foster care includes an important process known as a home study.
The purpose of the home study is to make sure that your home is a suitable and safe place for a child to live. Every adoptive family will undergo a home study.
It starts with interviews and checks to learn more about you and your family. Then, social workers will visit your home to see if it is a safe space for a child. Once these checks are done, your case worker will create a report, which includes information such as:
It might seem like a lot, but it is all to make sure that the child will have a good home with the right parents.
The cost of a home study varies by state and adoption method. For foster care adoptions, there may be no fee at all or a very low fee. Some agencies will even reimburse these fees later if they charge one.
Outside of foster care adoption, the fees can be much higher for a home study — ranging on average from $1,000 to $3,000.
After the home study and applications are accepted, it’s time for the matching process — this is where your family will be matched to a child in care.
There are several factors for organizations to consider when making a match. For example, the unique needs and characteristics of the child in care, such as age, gender, medical requirements, and any specific preferences expressed by the child.
On the other hand, they’ll factor in the strengths, abilities, and preferences of prospective adoptive parents, too.
The matching process is another method for organizations to ensure a nurturing and supportive home that aligns with the child's needs. The goal is to find a family that can provide a loving and stable home, helping the child thrive.
Once a match is made, the child in care and the adoptive family may begin getting to know each other. This may involve supervised visits, phone calls, or even spending time together. These interactions allow a child in care and the family to become familiar with one another, build trust, and form a connection before moving toward placement.
While children can enter foster care as an infant and may be adopted by a foster parent, roughly 36% of children in foster care are age 11 or older.
With the above in mind, know that foster care adoption of an infant is possible, but extremely rare. The order of priority in placement is typically parent-first, then relative, then existing foster parent.
Unlike infants, older children may wait for years to be adopted.
While adopting a teen from foster care presents different challenges than adopting younger kids in care, it is also a rewarding experience that can provide older children with a brighter future and better outcomes.
Foster care adoption is only finalized after legal and court proceedings. This is a good thing! It ensures that an adoption is fully legal and permanent.
The process will vary depending on your state. For the most accurate information, we recommend consulting a legal professional in your area. They will have the most up-to-date information based on where you live.
Adoption outside of foster care is often expensive — for some families, typical adoption costs can rule them out of adoption altogether. Domestic adoptions can cost up to $45,000 in some cases!
However, the good news is that foster care adoption is one of the least expensive adoption routes.
There are three factors that contribute to a foster care adoption fee:
In general, foster care adoption costs range anywhere from completely free to around $2,500.
In some states, the three factors above are covered by the state. In others, it’s a minimal fee that will need to be paid.
For example, in California, public organizations may charge a fee of up to $500, with the possibility of additional fees for fingerprinting and medical examinations. However, there are also situations where these fees can be waived, and the adoption is free.
Your best option is to consult a local organization in your state — they will provide all of the cost information you need for foster care adoptions.
Sevita’s partners help foster parents provide an environment where children can thrive. Mentor Foster Care, a part of Sevita’s companies, will work with you to connect you to children in care who need a home full of love.
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